🦋🦋 Helena 🦋🦋

Should I take a safe job or should I do one that will make me happier but is less safe?

There is a Japanese concept called Ikigai.
Ikigai is the intersection between what you love, what you’re good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. It is the bliss, the purpose and the intention behind what you are doing. It is the reason you get out of bed; the purpose for being alive. If you are lucky enough to find something that sets your fucking heart on fire then disregard what people think, get out of your head, get out of your way, and go create the life you want.

♥️ Sensuality and massage are my my Ikigai ♥️

Hotwife (ing): A practice among married couples in which the wife is open to seek sex partners, to the satisfaction of the husband.

Hello there;

It is nice to make your acquaintance. You have stumbled upon my website, and here you will find a ton of info about me and the services I offer.
Please note that as of autumn 2024, I am changing gears a fair bit and will only be in Edmonton a handful of days a month. I have a “civilian” job, a farm, and many hobbies & side hustles that keep me very pleasantly busy. I am at the point in this industry that I mostly see my regular clients, with occassoinal new clients who have made a good first impression. The biggest predictor of human happiness is the quality of the human relationships we have. Whether we are single-serving friends or longtime lovers, I try to attract and find people who leave me feeling like my cup has been filled with their presence.

I am in my early forties, & am married to a client I met 15 years ago when I dabbled in this industry. After that very brief dalliance in the adult industry, I stopped for nearly a decade to work as an Executive Assistant to a CEO, to eventually throw in the towel on my Admin career to attend a Massage Therapy Diploma & fitness instructor certification . I do not consider myself university-compatible but I am married to someone with multiple master’s degrees and can keep up just fine ;)

If you saw me on the street, you’d never know that I do “this”. I am an older version of the girl-next-door and look and act quite unassuming and sweetly. I am mostly a good girl…. but not when I come into the city to see you ;)

I choose this “job” for several reasons. Firstly, I love men. I love passionate encounters, and touching & being touched. I love both lovemaking and getting fucked senseless. Secondly, it beats sitting at a desk 8 hours a day working on budget slides and spreadsheets. Thirdly, I love being able to work less than a traditional 40-hour week and getting to spend more time on my farm and my passions. Lastly, I get a real thrill out of the naughtiness of this all. I have ALWAYS been willing to take the road less traveled and it has paid off. I’ve met cool people, traveled the world and had some damn good sex ;)

Every day I tell myself: “what you do is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it”

Things I truly enjoy are fitness, off-grid living and homesteading (I own a legal farm, though it’s really my hobby farm) wellness retreats, riding my quad, live theater & music, traveling (35 countries and counting, and I lived abroad for seven years in my twenties), dark roast coffee, fishing, camping, reading, hearing peoples stories (nothing is too weird or out there for me), & getting regularly well f*cked ;) I am a cheerful, albeit thoughtful person that is extremely grounded. I value my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health, and am very self-aware. These qualities make me a mature but fun-loving companion, able to offer a classy, tantalizing, & mutually pleasurable experience.

My preferences are at a bit of a confluence. On one hand, I love extended, slow sessions that dabble in energy play, teasing, and drawing out pleasure for as long as possible. And, on the other hand, I sometimes enjoy fast and furious carnal relations. Both are equally pleasurable and enjoyed.

I am a registered massage therapist (RMT), and I have done over 3000 hours in massage training, while graduating top of my class with a 95% average. My continuing education includes ten days in Hawaii studying Lomi Lomi (a sensual -but not sexual - massage style), Tantra (more of a philosophical study), Thai Massage in Boston, MA (which I am not currently offering), Cupping, Hot Stones, Reflexology & Thai Hot Bamboo massage.

I am a laid back and grounded person. I spend more time doing things and living experiences than I do on my phone or in the digital world. In the past year, I have lost 25 kilos and have embraced being extremely active and healthy. Over the past few years several people have commented on my emotional intelligence and I take this as the highest compliment. I am mature but fun and I think my adventurousness, imagination, intelligence make me far more interesting than my fit body and big bosom (but visit me for whatever floats your boat ;)

I don’t smoke and have never done drugs, and only drink very occasionally. I am a great conversationalist; I love hearing how people think and learning what makes them tick and am happy to spend time talking before or after any fun we have. I am not going to rush our visit; I do this because I love sensuality, exploration and excitement; I am not looking to take your money and move you along as quickly as possible; I thoroughly enjoy getting to know the people I meet doing this (and if I don’t enjoy your company, I will politely decline future meetings).

Stats

Height: 5’6 Weight: 130lbs (I describe myself as fit but soft )
Clothing Size: Small
Shoe Size: 7.5/8
Bust: 36DD enhanced / Waist: 28
Hair: Red
Eyes: Blue-Green bedroom eyes that reflect my Scandinavian roots.

I have, for the most part, a natural appearance. I enjoy wearing sexy (but not overly complicated) clothing & doing my hair and make-up, but I am not over the top. I am an older version of the girl-next-door; the casually sexy soccer mom of your dreams ;)

I had let myself get soft during COVID, which was fine, but in the past year I’ve discovered a passion for fitness and I have gotten back into shape. I’m feel sexy AF at the moment and am enjoying this new chapter.

Random Tidbits:

• I started doing “this” in Dec 2020. a few years earlier cashed my chips out of Edmonton and moved to a rural property a few years ago. I’d been living a life of comfortable mediocrity and was ready for some big changes ;)

• I am born and raised in the prairies . I love living in the backwoods and I love my small town.

• Having said that…..I have traveled to 30+ countries and lived & worked in several of those. Most of my twenties was spent living overseas (Europe and the South Pacific).

• I do not have a university degree because I quit uni and moved to Ireland and Scotland for three years to bartend. A move I never regretted

• My acreage is my canvas and I’m always scheming to make it better. While many ladies are saving up for designer handbags and a Lexus, I am saving up to fence more pastures and build more coops, sheds, and barns.

• I have dogs that pretty much rule my life at home, lol. But I love them to bits, and am totally a dog person

• I like fantasy movies; Beowolf, Pan’s Labyrinth, Lord of the Rings & the Hobbit all turn my crank. I also like some historical westerns. The Ballad of Buster Scruggs and shows like 1883 float my boat.

• I am an introvert (an INTJ; some of you will know what that is ;) and I love one-on-one time with people and thrive on personal connections. I do not like big crowds or parties. Hanging out at a busy mall would be my personal definition of hell.

• Favorite topics of conversation: real estate, disaster planning/prepping/ off-the-grid living and self reliance, travel, politics, and sex & relationships